Tag Archive | end of life wishes

A Funny Video on How to Start the Conversation about End of Life Wishes

A Funny Video on How to Start the Conversation about End of Life Wishes

We avoid this conversation, but I know the guilt caregivers feel when they aren’t sure if they are doing the right thing for their loved ones. It’s time for us to start having the discussion about end of life wishes since 9 out of 10 American’s will need someone to speak on our behalf before […]

If I’m not me, I don’t want to be.

If I’m not me, I don’t want to be.

Dementia and end of life wishes don’t mesh. In a story I previously shared of Jerome Medalie that appeared in The New York Times last month, he was quoted as saying “If I’m not me, I don’t want to be.” His words linger in my brain as I follow-up with my mom’s caregivers to share […]

Are Ensure Shakes and Hospice Compatible?

Are Ensure Shakes and Hospice Compatible?

Mom has been moved into hospice care. We’ve not been told her death is near, but there is little hope her condition will improve. When it was suggested, The idea was to have a doctor who would focus on keeping her comfortable. She’s been more communicative than she was two weeks ago, but those moments […]