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The Two Stinky Options for Dementia Care Givers

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Marie Marley

I am thankful that my parents choose their retirement community. It alleviates most of the guilt I feel, however, it doesn’t mean you aren’t involved or acting as a care giver. Helping my parents has been and continues to be a part-time job. The community works with me and my siblings — we are actively involved as advocates and care givers — and have been for more than two years.

Right now my siblings and I are struggling to know if my Mom is in the right place. With dementia, the transitions are the trickiest and I’m not sure one community will always be the right place for everyone. The set-up of the Assisted Living community is proving to be very challenging now. We are possibly going to have to find her a new place if the place she selected confirms that they are just unable to help my Mom any longer.

I enjoyed reading this article in Huffington Post by Marie Marley who speaks to The Pros and Cons of Placing Your Loved One in a Facility.

It’s a good read, and a good reminder that both choices stink. Conflicted.

One comment on “The Two Stinky Options for Dementia Care Givers

  1. […] a new facility that is dedicated to memory care and move her from the community she choose. This seems like the most logical next step for us to […]

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