Kate does a wonderful job of giving care givers insight on a topic that plagued me and my siblings for the past two years. We struggled to help my parent’s while they were struggling so hard to keep their independence.
In a blog comment this week about me handing things over to my BUB, I responded with this; ‘I have had to give up a couple of things this week, and hand the responsibility over to Pete.’ I felt physically SICK doing this, and incompetent, and guilty having to do so… even though I know he does not mind at all.’ I had suggested there was a blog in this, and the more I think about it, the more I know it is an important blog to write.
As I asked my DH to take over, the physical response was instant, and has stayed with me as a vague nausea ever since, or at least when I think about it. Prior to the visit to my neurologist on Monday, I had typed up a list of things to discuss, having had my DH review and add to it, in an effort not…
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